The #1 (Number One) Thing Women Hate the Most about Men and The #1 (Number One) Thing Men Hate the Most about Women

Here is the number one thing women all around the world absolutely hate the most about men and the number one thing men around the world absolutely hate the most about women.

This here crosses ALL cultural lines, race and color lines, status, religion, filthy rich or dirt poor, grew up in the first world or somewhere down in the remotest parts of the third world. This has absolutely NO barrier on who or what you are as long as you are a Woman or a Man; these are the number one things at the very top of the list of what the other gender does not like the most. They may come in different forms but it is essentially the same thing.

After much research, consultations, talking to men and women of different age groups and doing a lot of reading on the subject, i have come to this conclusion; that there is one thing at the very top of every woman's "list" about what they really don't like about men.

And also  there is one thing at the top of every man's "list" about what they really don't like about women and these two things are the driving force behind ALL relationships and are almost always on a collision course and yet it would seem that women and men just cannot do without these things no matter how the other feels about it.

So here goes;

The #1 (Number One) Thing ALL Women Absolutely, Unequivocally, Unrelentingly and Passionately Hate about Men is.........DOMINANCE.

If there was one thing every woman would like to get rid of in every man, this would be it. For without dominance, there would be no male chauvinism, intimidation, abuse (both physical and emotional), no more trying to prove that he is more macho and smarter and bossier...and so on and so on and all of the craziness would just go away.

Now all the craziness may not completely go away but a lot of it would and so if women had it there way, Dominance would by far be the one thing they would gladly get rid of in every man.

It is absolutely the root of every demand for respect, the need to be the head or the leader of everything in any given situation, the decision maker, the top boss, the last word and so on and so on. And it is absolutely the root of all that ego.

For men, Dominance is everything they have, now it may come in different shapes, types and manifest differently in varying situations but it is still dominance. And it just so happens to be the only weapon in their arsenal.

Men have NOTHING else. And so when a man ever feels threatened even in the slightest way, be it in business, sports, academics, relationships, anything you name it, he has only one weapon to go to and that weapon is called dominance. Now it may come in the form of writing a cheque and buying out his business competition across the street or punching someone in the nose during a bar brawl, but it is still the same exact thing. Dominance.

So you hear things like men dominating in their field of expertise, in sports, business academics and so on which many women will find very appealing and attractive in a man but the one place she never wants it to manifest is in a relationship.

But as i mentioned earlier, it is the ONLY weapon in the man's arsenal and so the more dominant he is in business, career etc, the more the likelihood of him being more dominant in a relationship simply because he has honed in his domineering skill-set and it does not change.
Which then brings us to the next point. The one thing women will do or use to counter this domineering nature.

And it just so happens to be the #1 thing ALL men cannot stand.



The #1 (Number One)Thing that ALL Men Absolutely, Unequivocally, Unrelentingly and Passionately Hate about Women is.........MANIPULATION.

If there was one thing every man would like to get rid of in every woman, it would be this one thing; Manipulation. They say "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" but am telling you that "Dominance has no equal like a man manipulated". And just like the men, Manipulation is the ONLY weapon in the women's arsenal and without it many women would not know what to do.

It is absolutely the root of every single seduction technique that women have cultivated over the years, the root of every feminist banner put up during the matches, the root of every fake tear ever cried to get attention and sympathy and yet it is also the reason every man walks across the room to the bar to offer the young lady a drink 'on the house', without even knowing it he has been manipulated from the very start by that little black dress or that skirt with the slit that was cut just right.

Many women would not know what to do without having to manipulate their way around different situations every day. From getting out of that traffic ticket on the highway to getting onto that seat in the boardroom. Many women will do anything in the way of Manipulation to get what they want as most men will do in the way of Domination to get what they want too.

Manipulation Vs Dominance:

I prefer to think of it as Emotioneering Vs Logiciousness because often times these go together. Manipulation has to be supported by emotion, even fake emotion while Dominance has to be supported by logic however irrational it may be or sound. I.e "If i cry and pretend to be in distress even when am not, i will get some sympathy thrown my way and i will accomplish what i want done and he will give me what i want" vs "If i show who is boss around here and if i can just throw money and intimidation at this problem and solve it, i will get it done and problem will be solved so we can move on and i can get what i want"

Pressed with similar situations,  a lady will always be compelled to use her feminine qualities such as beauty, perceived weakness (the-damsel-in-distress-approach) while a man will try to use his dominance such as physical strength, intimidation and so on.

That's why common scenarios like a man asserting his alpha dominance over his son-in-law and any other men he deems as a threat to his dominance at anything else or where the manipulation game will be at an all time high between a woman and her daughter-in-law or with her fellow women whom she perceives as a threat in any way.

Have you ever heard the question "Why do women hate so much on other women?" Well, It's because women can SEE other women's manipulation. A girl friend can see her mother-in-law manipulating her son and likewise the mother-in-law can see her son being manipulated by this girl friend of his and yet somehow many men will not see it coming because it is not dressed up in Dominance.

And with no dominance attached to it, it does not seem like an obvious threat to most men at first but soon or later they will get it and when they do, the only thing they can do to protect themselves is to assert more dominance on the situation.

And so you will have women getting extremely manipulative and the men getting extremely dominant because what either of them has is only ONE weapon to work with and so the more you're in that unhealthy relationship the more dominant he'll get and the more manipulative she'll get too which will only lead to disaster in the end, slowly but surely. This is driven by the fact that if either one puts down their weapon, they will have nothing to protect themselves with and so there is no way that either will put themselves in any kind of vulnerable position in the relationship.

It should also be noted that neither party, men or women have the kind of protection needed from the other. Making many women very susceptible to male dominance and likewise making many men very susceptible to female manipulation.

However, the ONLY way that any relationship can survive in the long term is when both parties (The Man and The Woman) who are getting into it or are way into it already, chose not to use their weapons of choice (Dominance and Manipulation) within the relationship boundaries ever. Thus allowing themselves to get completely vulnerable around each other (This is also known as TRUSTING) trusting that the man himself will protect you from his domineering ways and from the domineering ways of others while also that the woman will intern protect her man from any of her manipulative ways and also from the manipulative ways of others and in so doing trusting one another and watching each others backs.

Dominance may be okay in business competition but it has no place in a healthy relationship. As also will manipulation work on that officer on the highway who gets you out of that ticket but it will only lead to disaster should it make it's way into your relationship.

So for a healthy relationship between a Loving Man and a Respectable Woman, the number one weapons of choice; DOMINANCE and MANIPULATION have to be laid down by both parties. Making it the ONLY way to a healthy long lasting relationship.